{"id":197105,"date":"2024-06-12T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-06-12T11:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/?p=197105"},"modified":"2024-06-12T18:43:44","modified_gmt":"2024-06-12T18:43:44","slug":"ffsp-webinars-help-navy-parents-with-the-talk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/?p=197105","title":{"rendered":"FFSP Webinars Help Navy Parents with \u2018The\u2019 Talk"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p>Talking to your child about their bodies and sexual health is important in their healthy development from childhood to adulthood.<\/p>\n<p>Commander, Navy Installations Command\u2019s (CNIC\u2019s) Fleet and Family Support Centers (FFSC) help families overcome the negative stigma of these discussions through a series of webinars titled, \u201cSHAPE\u201d (Sexual Health through Approachable Prevention and Education).<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSHAPE webinars are designed for parents and caregivers who are seeking information on how to discuss sexual health and development with their child,\u201d said Amy Fustino, MSS, MLSP, LCSW, clinical analyst with CNIC. \u201cIt\u2019s also for parents who have a child who has exhibited or is impacted by problematic sexual behavior or PSB-CY (Problematic Sexual Behavior in Children and Youth).\u201d<\/p>\n<p>SHAPE gives parents and caregivers information and tools to effectively respond to their child\u2019s sexual behaviors and questions. Facilitators teach parents appropriate terminology to identify body parts in discussions with their child, using person-first language to express behavior and promote healing in incidents of PSB-CY.<\/p>\n<p>SHAPE was developed to help parents and caregivers become proactive partners to support healthy child sexual development and prevent or reduce problematic sexual behavior. The webinars give parents age-appropriate responses with factual and honest conversations.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat you say to a nine-year-old is completely different than what you would say to a teenager; however, it should always be factual and honest,\u201d said Fustino. \u201cThese classes give parents the information to understand what is normative and expected at each age and builds their confidence by providing specific examples on how they can respond to their child at various ages.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fustino added a child\u2019s sexual development is a vital aspect of a child\u2019s overall growth, covering biological, psychological, and social dimensions.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDespite its importance, many parents feel ill-equipped to talk about this sensitive subject confidently,\u201d she said. \u201cOften, discussions are delayed until a child reaches puberty, yet research indicates that early and frequent education, beginning as early as two years old, produces the best results.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>By supplying parents with accurate information and age-appropriate communication strategies, parents will in turn, be able to empower their children to grow in supportive environments where they can explore their development and sexuality, set boundaries, and confidently seek assistance. Additionally, such education enables parents to identify and address signs of abuse or problematic behavior, thereby safeguarding their children\u2019s well-being.<\/p>\n<p>SHAPE gives parents the tools they need to proactively talk with their children about sexual health and development topics through demonstrations, videos, and practical exercises.<\/p>\n<p>SHAPE is a modular course that allows learners to attend sections most relevant to their child\u2019s age group. For example:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Module 1 \u2013 Introduces an overview of the facts and sets the tone for language. Modules two through five cover the developmental stages, age-appropriate behaviors, and communication strategies.<\/li>\n<li>Module 2 \u2013 for ages 2-4<\/li>\n<li>Module 3 \u2013 for ages 5-9<\/li>\n<li>Module 4 \u2013 for ages 10-12<\/li>\n<li>Module 5 \u2013 for ages 13-18 years old.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This parenting curriculum was designed to be in person at your local FFSC but has now been modified to be offered virtually.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think this program helps to bridge the gap. Frankly, this is a difficult topic for most and this curriculum helps to make it approachable,\u201d said Fustino. \u201cThis curriculum represents a fundamental step towards fostering healthy sexual development and mitigating problematic behaviors and instances of abuse in children.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fustino, with more than a decade of experience with CNIC, stated if parents are not teaching their children and having these discussions about sexual development and sexual behavior, they will learn from someone or somewhere else.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cToday\u2019s kids live in a world where so much can be found online, which is not safeguarded. As parents, we need to ensure that what they learn and are exposed to is appropriate,\u201d she said. \u201cParents should be proactive in supporting their child\u2019s sexual development in the same ways that they support other areas of their development. When parents encourage open communication and understanding from an early age, children are better equipped to assert their rights, comprehend appropriate relationship boundaries, and seek assistance if feeling uneasy or unsafe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>SHAPE\u2019s goal is to furnish parents with the tools necessary to educate their children on body autonomy, boundaries, and consent, so they can prevent and reduce the risk of sexual behaviors, abuse, and exploitation. Armed with accurate information and support, parents can navigate distress, secure assistance for their children, and foster a positive outlook for the future.<\/p>\n<p>To learn more about the SHAPE webinars and register:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Step 1<\/strong>: Log on or make a free account at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.MyNavyFamily.com\">www.MyNavyFamily.com<\/a>. Follow the on-screen instructions. (<strong>NOTE<\/strong>: Be sure to enter your time zone)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Step 2<\/strong>: Click the \u201cVirtual SHAPE\u201d icon on the home page to access the SHAPE portal for details and resources.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Step 3<\/strong>: Click the \u201cUpcoming Webinars\u201d tab for course descriptions\/upcoming schedules.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Step 4<\/strong>: Click your chosen date to register. Receive reminder emails and a personal access link.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For more information contact your installation\u2019s FFSC at <a href=\"https:\/\/ffr.cnic.navy.mil\/Family-Readiness\/Fleet-And-Family-Support-Program\/FFSC-Directory\/\">FFSC Directory (navy.mil)<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Talking to your child about their bodies and sexual health is important in their healthy development from childhood to adulthood. Commander, Navy Installations Command\u2019s (CNIC\u2019s) Fleet and Family Support Centers (FFSC) help families overcome the negative stigma of these discussions through a series of webinars titled, \u201cSHAPE\u201d (Sexual Health through Approachable Prevention and Education). \u201cSHAPE [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":495,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-197105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/197105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=197105"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/197105\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":197107,"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/197105\/revisions\/197107"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/495"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=197105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=197105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=197105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}