{"id":27637,"date":"2023-09-14T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-14T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/?p=27637"},"modified":"2023-09-16T06:40:50","modified_gmt":"2023-09-16T06:40:50","slug":"daf-leaders-spouses-reflect-on-changes-for-military-families-at-afa-panel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adn.monetizemail.com\/?p=27637","title":{"rendered":"DAF leaders, spouses reflect on changes for military families at AFA panel"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p><strong class=\"article-detail-dateline\">NATIONAL HARBOR, Md. (AFNS)  &#8212; \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Department of the Air Force leaders and their spouses discussed changes and challenges that have impacted military families during a panel at the Air and Space Forces Association\u2019s 2023 Air, Space and Cyber Conference Sept. 13.<br \/><!--image-->\n    <\/p>\n<p><!--media-inline--><\/p>\n<p>Participating panelists included Air Force Chief of Staff <a href=\"https:\/\/www.af.mil\/About-Us\/Biographies\/Display\/Article\/108485\/charles-q-brown-jr\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Gen. CQ Brown, Jr.<\/strong><\/a> and his wife, Sharene Brown; Chief of Space Operations <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spaceforce.mil\/Biographies\/Bio-Display\/Article\/2329659\/b-chance-saltzman\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Gen. Chance Saltzman<\/strong><\/a> and his wife, Jennifer Saltzman; Chief Master Sgt. of the Air Force <a href=\"https:\/\/www.af.mil\/About-Us\/Biographies\/Display\/Article\/2314276\/joanne-s-bass\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>JoAnne S. Bass<\/strong><\/a> and her husband, Rahn Bass; and Chief Master Sgt. of the Space Force <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spaceforce.mil\/Biographies\/Display\/Article\/2136021\/roger-a-towberman\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Roger A. Towberman<\/strong><\/a> and his wife, Rachel Rush.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.af.mil\/About-Us\/Biographies\/Display\/Article\/1955079\/caroline-m-miller\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Lt. Gen. Caroline M. Miller<\/strong><\/a>, Air Force Manpower, Personnel and Services deputy chief of staff, moderated the discussion and asked panelists to share their perspectives on changes they witnessed over time as military families. She also engaged the leaders and their spouses on their personal experiences in leveraging on and off-base resources to improve their quality of life as military families.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen it comes to change, today\u2019s military family looks a lot different than it did 30 years ago,\u201d Chief Bass said. \u201cYou have more dual-working families, dual military, and single parents.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Chief Bass also said leaders should continue to support initiatives and programs on military installations that help maintain family connections.<\/p>\n<p><!--media-inline--><\/p>\n<p>Sharene Brown said she witnessed several positive changes throughout her experience as a military spouse, especially regarding the availability of programs to support service and family members\u2019 mental health, as well as resources to ease transitions for military-connected students and resources to assist Airmen and Guardians enrolled in the Exceptional Family Member Program.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe fact that we can talk about this openly and connect to the resources out there is huge,\u201d Sharene Brown said. \u201cFrom my perspective, what\u2019s now available on and off our installations for our families is overwhelming.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Some of the resources highlighted included:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cohenveteransnetwork.org\/get-the-facts\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Cohen Veterans Network<\/strong><\/a>: a network of mental health clinics focusing on post-9\/11 veterans, active duty servicemembers, and families, to help address transition challenges before they become chronic or acute<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/installations.militaryonesource.mil\/search?program-service=12\/view-by=ALL\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Joint Service School Liaison Program<\/strong><\/a>: education specialists that assist with local school navigation, deployment support, scholarship, and grant resources, and more<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.militaryonesource.mil\/resources\/millife-guides\/emfp-resources\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Exceptional Family Member Program<\/strong><\/a>: a Department of Defense program offered to servicemembers who have a family member with an exceptional medical or educational need<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Gen. Saltzman noted that Airmen and Guardians are expected to do more with fewer resources as the department evolves.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s a fundamentally different Air Force,\u201d Gen. Saltzman said. \u201cWhat\u2019s impressive to me is we have shifted from an Air Force of over 500,000 to an Air Force and Space Force that is far less than that.\u201d<br \/><!--image-->\n    <\/p>\n<p><!--media-inline--><\/p>\n<p>Panelists also mentioned another dynamic affecting Airmen and Guardian families, the \u201cdeployed in place\u201d concept. An increasing number of active-duty Airmen and Guardians support high-ops-tempo units and missions from home station. These Airmen and Guardians often face the same stressors and grueling hours they would during an overseas deployment, yet they still return home to their families daily.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBecause of what automation and remote capabilities have allowed, we can now create effects worldwide without leaving the safety of our garrisons,\u201d Gen. Saltzman said. \u201cAs a leadership team, we have to recognize that this comes with a different set of challenges and stressors. We need to provide ways to mitigate that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The speakers on the panel shared strategies like scheduling regular quality time, having open communication, and allowing space to pursue individual interests as personal approaches to maintaining strong connections with their partners amid busy lives and careers.<br \/><!--image-->\n    <\/p>\n<p><!--media-inline--><\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou really can\u2019t \u2018turn off\u2019 in the positions we have here,\u201d Rahn Bass said. \u201cThere will be messages and phone calls. Being realistic about that \u2013 present in the moment and deliberate about quality time is important.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Towberman also shared his perspectives for looking at relationships using a different lens and how to be more connected.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c[It\u2019s] about harmony,\u201d Toberman said. \u201cI think that harmony comes best \u2026 in undiluted moments. There\u2019s too much of our life that gets diluted if we are not paying attention, and diluted experiences are hardly experiences at all. I think we try really hard to say \u2018this is about us,\u2019 and this is about a real moment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rush spoke about an article she wrote for Military Spouse Magazine titled \u2018Your Wild and Precious Life\u2019, in which she spoke specifically to spouses about the importance of taking time to work on themselves, build personal connections, and find purpose beyond being in a relationship with their spouses.<br \/><!--image-->\n    <\/p>\n<p><!--media-inline--><\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think sometimes we [spouses] can lose sight of our life,\u201d Rush said. \u201cWhen I became a military spouse, I had friendships, I had connections, but I had to work so much harder to keep [them] \u2026 I think it\u2019s important to really ground yourself in the life that you have and to make things real and pertinent. You have to do things for yourself because although you have the journey with this person you love so much, it is still this one wild and precious life. You have to do what makes you happy, and we all have to be there to support one another.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Due to anticipated retirements and promotions, the 2023 AFA conference serves as the final time this group of leaders are expected to be on stage together, and they reflected on their experiences supporting military families across the Air Force and Space Force.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOne reason why I\u2019ve enjoyed [this forum at AFA] is we\u2019re able to show we are real people just like you,\u201d said Gen. Brown. \u201cWe\u2019ve got to remember how important [military families] are to what we do, and the sacrifices they make are tremendous.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"ast-split ntext breakout \">\n<div class=\"item\">\n<div class=\"body\">\n<section class=\"ast-brandedhr\">\n<div class=\"ast-brandedhr-line\">\n<p>                <title>U.S. Air Force Logo<\/title><\/p><\/div>\n<\/section><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NATIONAL HARBOR, Md. (AFNS) &#8212; \u00a0 Department of the Air Force leaders and their spouses discussed changes and challenges that have impacted military families during a panel at the Air and Space Forces Association\u2019s 2023 Air, Space and Cyber Conference Sept. 13. Participating panelists included Air Force Chief of Staff Gen. 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